Wednesday, January 4, 2012

My biggest Christmas Surprise (EVER)

Last week someone asked me if I had recovered from Christmas yet, and I thought to myself, "No, I think that's going to take a few years..."  Now that might seem like a weird, or somewhat negative thought, but let me just tell you what I got Christmas morning...

Christmas Eve we got a call from the bishop (church) asking if J and I could meet with him 30 minutes prior to sacrament meeting the next day. Yes, that would be Christmas morning.  Well, you can't exactly say no, so we said we would be there and in the meantime I told myself whatever it was I wasn't going to worry about it because I just wanted to enjoy Christmas eve and Christmas morning.  J was sure it was a calling for me, but I soothed myself that it was just something regarding AP's class assignment for the coming year or that it had to do with one of our special needs Young Women that J and I have been trying to help.  Well Christmas morning when we walked into the bishop's office the entire bishopric was sitting there to greet us.  Again, I soothed myself by thinking that if the whole bishopric was there this must be a calling for J, because if it were a calling for me it wouldn't require the whole bishopric to extend it.  So we chatted a little about Christmas and then the bishop looked right at me with a big smile and said, "well let's get to the reason why we're here." Then he proceeded to tell me that they wanted me to be the new Relief Society President.  I will say I was more than a little shocked.  I have not spent much time in Relief Society.  Other than serving as the secretary for a year after J and I were first married and short stint as a teacher when we were living with J's sister, my callings have always been in Primary and Young Women.  So I will admit this is a bit of a steep learning curve for me.

I am not a phone person, and if the last few days have been any indication of things to come (and I believe they are) I am going to have to get over my phone issues quickly; learn how to manage a crying child (D, who does not generally tantrum a lot had a meltdown every single time I got on the phone yesterday), pay attention to the person on the phone, and somehow remember all of the details from the conversation.  Many of you are aware and have heard my stories about how hard it is for me to approach people and go visiting; another thing I am having to get over quickly (did my first birthday visit to a non-member yesterday and I enjoyed it!).  I am grateful for the opportunity to serve and to grow, and I just keep telling myself Sister Dalton's line, which we have used on our Young Women so many times over the last year, "You CAN do hard things [and you will be blessed for it]."  So wish me luck (and I wouldn't mind any prayers in my behalf either *wink*).

8 comments:

  1. As I texted Heath the other day, "You make a mom proud". Love you so much!

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  2. I think you will be amazing at this. You have the ability to have compassion for others who are are doing hard things.

    Something I learned from a Sister and friend who both have served in this calling....Learn to use the phone, delegate and get an answering machine. My sister and mother who have both served as Ward Relief Society and Stake Presidents said they had to learn when they were doing a family thing or helping one of their children to let the machine get it and return the call as soon as they were finished with the importance of their family.

    I LOVE Relief Society and the special spirit there. I miss it sometimes. Have joy in your calling you will be great.

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  3. Your ward is so lucky to have you! You really amaze me with how busy you've been and yet you still found time the past few days to respond to all my emails. You are such a great friend. By the way, I agree with everything you said in your last email and want you thank your wonderful insight.

    It really is hard is to be on the phone a lot with a three year old. Addy would often be happily occupied with something and then the minute I was on the phone she'd pop out of nowhere and want my undivided attention. She is still jealous of the phone every now and then. I thought of the idea of putting together a special box of toys that I'd only pull out whenever I needed to make a call, but then her tantrums stopped before I actually put it together.

    Anyway, best of luck again! I will keep you in my prayers and hope your transition into this calling will go smoothly. :) You really are going to be an incredible RS President!

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  4. Congratulations Heather. I know that you will do a super job. I can't imagine what a challenge it will be with chldren as young as yours are, but I know that you are given blessings galore as you serve the Lord! You will be given help in more ways than you can even imagine. Take care and I know you will blessed and will definitely bless the women of the ward!

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  5. WOW! Best of luck!!! I'm sure you will do a great job:) And, congratulations or my condolences whichever fits better ;)

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  6. Since you are one of the MOST AMAZING woman I know, I know that you will be an AMAZING RS President! I am excited for you! I think calling you on Christmas morning was not nice of your bishop, so he owes you big time. I am excited for you though because you have so much to share with others. If you were an author, I would read your books (since I don't read any books, that's a big compliment). Miss you!

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  7. Thank you all for your words of love, support, and encouragement (and for the great tips!). I love you all!

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  8. I think Amy nailed it when she said you are AMAZING! I get to see up close how remarkable you are as a companion, mother, and now RS boss and I am continually amazed and impressed. Love you so!

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